作者:郭闻中 · 更新日期:2025-08-12
春秋 🍁 战国时期
不正确。提亲是男 🐞 女双方向对方家庭提出结婚的请求,通,常。会交换订婚信物或聘礼并不涉及交换生辰八字
古代提亲过 🐛 程详细步骤
1. 媒 🐈 人 🦅 说合 🦢
男方委托媒人向 🐟 女方 🦟 提 🦄 亲。
媒人带 🦍 礼品拜访女方家长,了解女 🌵 方家世、容、貌 🦢 性格等情况。
若女方家 🦢 长同意,媒 🌺 人会传达男方提 🐞 亲意向。
2. 订亲女方家长同意提亲后,双方商定并交换 🐼 聘礼和嫁妆 🐕 。
聘礼一般包括金银首饰、绸、缎 🕸 布匹食品等。
嫁妆一般包括衣 🦟 物、家、具首饰等 🦁 。
订亲仪式通 🦆 常在女 🌳 方家中举 🐞 行。
3. 合 🐡 八 🐝 字 💮
双方交换生辰八字 🌸 ,请算命 🦟 先生合八字 🐈 。
若八字相 🐡 合,则认为婚事吉利。
4. 下聘礼 🐛
男方在订亲后会正式下聘礼 🌷 ,通常 🦈 由媒人送往女方家。
聘礼数 🐛 目根 🌾 据双 🐎 方家境而定。
5. 下 🌲 嫁 🐝 妆 🦟
女方在收到聘礼后 🐳 会回送嫁妆,同样由媒人运 🐺 送至 🌺 男方家。
6. 迎娶婚期临 🦄 近,男方会派迎亲队伍前往 🐞 女方家中迎接新娘。
迎 🐈 亲队伍一般由媒人、轿 🐕 、夫乐手等组成。
新娘出嫁前要向父 🦁 母磕头告别。
7. 拜 🍁 堂 🍁 成亲 🌲
迎亲 🌻 队伍将新娘带到男方家中,举 🕸 行拜堂仪式 🦉 。
拜堂仪式通常在 🐵 祠堂或大堂 🌾 举行,由父母或长辈主持。
新郎新娘面向天地 🐈 、父母叩拜。
8. 入 🪴 洞 🐺 房 🌹
拜堂结束后,新娘会 🌷 被送 🐟 入洞房。
此时通常由媒人撤去新 🌿 娘面纱新,郎新 🌺 娘喝交杯酒。
9. 三朝 🍁 回门 🐼
婚后第三天,新,郎新娘会 🌻 回女方家拜见父母称为三“朝回门”。
女方家长会 🐒 设宴款待新 🐞 人。
10. 入 🐕 洞 💐 房 🌷
三 🐳 朝回门后,新郎新娘 🍁 会 🐅 正式同房入洞房。
古代提亲后成亲 🐛 的时间 vary greatly, depending on factors such as the social status of the families, the age of the couple, and the season of the year:
Upperclass families: The wedding could take place within a few months to a year after the proposal.
Middleclass families: The wedding could take place within several months to a year after the proposal.
Lowerclass families: The wedding could take place within a few weeks to several months after the proposal.
In general, weddings were more common in the spring and autumn months, as the weather was more favorable. Weddings were generally not held during the summer due to the heat, or during the winter due to the cold.
Some specific examples of the time between proposal and wedding in ancient China:
During the Han Dynasty (206 BC220 AD), the average time between proposal and wedding was about three months.
During the Tang Dynasty (618907 AD), the average time between proposal and wedding was about six months.
During the Song Dynasty ( AD), the average time between proposal and wedding was about one year.